Political Estrangement and Mental Health: The Hidden Cost
Psychologist warns that cutting off family over politics may worsen loneliness and mental health, not improve them.

In an era where political views have become personal identifiers, the temptation to sever family ties over ideological differences is growing. While some see this drastic measure as self-care, clinical psychologist Dr. Chloe Carmichael warns it might lead to isolation and worsen mental health. “Cutting off your family is like eating Twinkies for health food,” she says, comparing it to an unhealthy habit dressed as a healthy choice.
The Emerging Trend
As polarization widens, younger generations often find themselves in stark opposition to the political beliefs of their elders, notably those supporting former President Donald Trump. According to Dr. Carmichael, this trend is not only reflective of ideological divisions but is deeply impacting the mental well-being of those involved. The disconnect isn’t just personal—it’s part of a broader mental health dilemma, supported by Tufts University research that highlights links between political estrangement and poor mental health among liberals.
The Epidemic of Loneliness
The cultural push for estrangement is often framed as empowerment, especially on social media platforms. For many, breaking ties has become synonymous with self-preservation. But loneliness lurks in the background. Dr. Carmichael underscores this concern, connecting the trend to an overall increase in reported loneliness in America, especially among young adults.
Embracing Resilient Communication
Instead of retreating into silence, Dr. Carmichael advocates for “listening resilience.” This involves absorbing divergent viewpoints without immediate rebuttal, fostering patience and empathy. Reflecting on moments that evolved personal convictions can open avenues for compassion and understanding between divided family members.
The Power of Open Dialogue
In debates over free speech and expression, Dr. Carmichael sees these as pillars for combating mental health challenges. Authentic communication can strengthen social bonds and serve as a mental health buffer. Open dialogues, she argues, reduce polarization and enable communities to collaboratively seek the truth.
According to New York Post, building towards mutual understanding rather than division is key. Encouraging discussion, rather than estrangement, might just be the antidote needed in this era of heightened political tension.
Moving Forward
Dr. Carmichael’s insights encourage individuals to confront their fears through supportive networks that embrace diversity of thought. She advises preparing for sensitive conversations, possibly rehearsing them, to foster supportive and resilient relationships—echoing the idea that it’s not about choosing between family and beliefs but about integrating both into one’s life for holistic well-being.